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The GFE....

30 Dec, 2024

Back when review board culture had some relevance, the common acronyms, GFE, PSE, FS,  were purported to be indicators to specific services provided by the escorts.This is no longer true, and hasn't been for quite some time....Review board culture spurs a lot of misinformation....

Hard core board members will still insist that if a provider lists herself as a GFE provider then she *must * allow deep french kissing (DFK) and bare back blow jobs (BBBJ), at the minimum....Within the porn star experience(PSE), they believe it * must * include cum in mouth (CIM), deep throating (DT), cum on face(COF) and some will also say, anal is also a necessary part of determining the PSE service.....I say they are wrong....Acronyms such as GFE, PSE, FS indicate a STYLE of service, not specific services.

Full service, FS, is a style of service that is offered and sought by those who don't require an intimate connection.A full service provider will concentrate primarily on satisfying their clients sexual needs, within their set boundaries. Often, not always, FS escorts will offer shorter date sessions, example-15/20/45 minute dates.... 

As I see it.... the GFE, girl friend experience, means that your experience, as long as the clients hygiene and manners are as expected, will leave the client feeling like they are on an a real, non transactional, romantic date. It is about companionship, intimacy and connecting.Those of us who offer this experience cater to our clients in such a way as to make them feel as if they are the only client we see, or want to see. I feel that any escort who offers this style of service has the desire and ability to delve into the art of intimacy in such a way that FS workers can't, or don't want to..... As the GFE is a comprehensive, and often emotionally laborious service.The client will fee that the intimacy is authentic, reciprocal, and different for each. It involves talking, flirting, and intimacy that involves chemistry and compatibility.Many GFE escorts will encourage longer dates, 2 hours plus.... The PSE experience is more hard core. The connection is built more on physical needs and attraction.Companionship isn't required.PSE is more about lust and satisfying that lust and less about intimacy....It's raunchier, more vocal, and very energetic. *Some what* like you see in porn movies. PSE escorts typically offer that style of service starting by the hour.....I see the GFE as satisfying a clients emotional and sexual needs, the PSE satifies the sexual only. But remember all experiences vary and are fantasies provided by professionals....Some escorts will truly enjoy being with you, and some will create the illusion that they truly enjoy being with you. Both should be respected.......

When booking an escort you should never assume that you'll receive specific services based on acronyms used. Since it seems we all still use them interchangeably and read into them different meanings. Ask questions when booking...I will also say, that if you contact an escort who advertises as GFE and you expect and require specific services to occur, then probably a GFE experience may not be for you. As I've said, it is an experience....and one that is built on a certain level of chemistry and emotional involvement. It involves companionship, and it's meant to create an intimate connection between those involved.To insist on it including specific services isn't appreciating the authenticity of it.....Better, imo, to seek out a FS provider.

So to those who go on a particular review board to insult, or to condemn an escort because the escort they saw advertised GFE, and didn't offer them a BBBJ, shame on you!! There are many resons why some clients are given or not given particular services...Some of those reasons are often on you, and could be because of your hygiene, the energy you bring, your manners, your compatibility or lack of, and how you treat the escort. All those things play into how any escort determines how far they will or won't go with any client. No escort should be demonized, or criticized for not providing a specific service.It becomes a he said she said and, imo, discussing the sexual activities shared is just indiscreet. Of course there are exceptions....if a client meets all the criteria of a good client, and has found an escort willing to discuss beforehand which particular services they'll offer them, and those particular services agreed upon by the parties involved weren't provided, then that is a different story. But again, it's a he said she said...Clear communication and discretion in this industry is always important, and as important as understanding the usage of escorting acronyms....Lets face it, some escorts will agree to providing many services to the client upon booking, just to gain that clients buisness, then forgo offering them for the fee agreed fee. That is dishonest, and unfair. And btw, discussing receiving sexual services for $$$ is illegal.....Regardless many clients will whine about not receiving a particular service, when it wasn't offered for good reason. I say to any client, if any escort promises you specific services before they meet you, see that as a red flag. Most professionals will never guarantee particular services. Since a meeting in person is necessary for determining many things. Some *might* say that X,Y or Z service is "likely" to happen, but imo, it's irresponsible to insist that those services *will* happen. What if the escort notices a rash or something else suspect on your genitals, or an offensive odor, or you have become aggressive, or won't take no for an answer, etc....in those instances it would be justified for the escort to end their date and refuse any type of sexual intimacy.....

When you seek an escort just be honest and realistic about your expectations, and do your research....then I'm sure you'll have a great and satisfying experience with no need to go onto any review board to blabber about what you did or didn't receive. Keep in mind professionals respect and require discretion, and being discreet has only one meaning.....which means that you keep things between the parties involved!! Thanks for reading