I have mentioned this before, as it was brought to my attention by a client....and it's happened again.....A lady who dislikes me is going around telling clients she sees, not to see me. Clearly her vindictiveness hasn't affected my business, but knowing of it has upset me. I'm upset because I find this type of vindictiveness so childish, unnecessary, and so very unprofessional. This person has never met me, nor has she ever spoken to me via text or a phone call. Her behavior is ridiculous...and yet It seems to be a common theme in this industry.....If an escort is disliked by one, then those who are friendly with that one will pile on and that group will try to ruin the reputation of the disliked escort. And the main way to do this seems to be by telling clients not to see "so and so"....Imagine being so insecure that you have to try and control who your clients see....Imagine thinking that you have the right to determine who your client sees!!.....I can't imagine being that petty, and I do hope that some of these guys they are talking to have the good sense to understand what's happening and why....

The business of escorting and companionship is supposed to be about meeting people that you can feel safe with, have compatibility with, relax with, and share intimacy with.....not meeting people to hear them spew garbage about those they dislike and have never met.....Shame on anyone who plays such dirty games......Shame on anyone who piles on with those who are so bitter and spiteful.

We all have a right to dislike people for whatever reasons, but when we advertise oursleves as being a professional, then we also have the responsibility to honor that decorum. Being professional means keeping your personal feelings separate from your business dealings....Look, don't associate with those you dislike, don't recommend them, don't speak to them....that is all fine. But once you start mixing your dislike or hatred with your business dealings by  spreading rumors to your clients and peers and asking and expecting them not to see certain people or to not work with them, then you become unworthy of your professional title and you clearly have no idea of how to act maturely, nor responsibly, and certainly not professionally. I'd go as far as to say that anyone who connects with a person acting this way, should be weary........but that's just how I see it.

In hindsight....I think one of the major problems in this industry is more than not, there are ladies who advertise as and pretend to be "loving what they do", all while truly loathing it. It is often them who act out and become vindictive. It is often them who will do anything to gain clients....It is often them who'll manipulate anyone to get what they need..... so, again be wise, and be weary when dealing with people in this biz.....