If there were ever to be a rule book written for Sex workers I'd hope some of these things would be considered as being some of the rules.....

1. Advertise yourself as you see fit , truthfully, and how you'd like to be perceived. Not as others recommend. It's your business model, it should represent you and be targeted towards the types of clients you wish to meet. The best thing you can do for longevity, and for enjoyable dates, is to offer what you enjoy doing, and not specific services simply because they bring in the most $$$. 

2.Compete with yourself, not others. Your peers shouldn't be your concern, as there is no other like yourself. Do your best to be at your best when you host clients and those who are meant for you will flock to you.

3. Act professionally. Leave any gossip, or dislike of any peers at the door. Never bring it into your client interactions. Even when they encourage it.

4. Respect your clients but also respect yourself. Set boundaries and stick to them. Never allow anyone to push them. And if a client mentions that they'd like to meet another worker, don't take that personally. Many clients enjoy variety, it's not a reflection of you doing anything wrong. If you know of someone suitable, then recommnend them. But recommend a worker who'd be best for that client, not who you like the best....

5. Charge what you like. Offer the time slots that you want to accommodate. No one other than you has a right to decide either....The fee for your time is what you determine you need to meet your overhead, and which will garner you what you determine you need to make per day/week/month or year/s to make working worthwhile.....Lots of clients will press us to charge less, or to offer time slots we're not comfortable with. Don't listen to any of that.....You are your own boss! Pay attention to your needs, and your needs only!!

6. Save...even the most popular and busiest workers will have slow times. Those times can sometimes be predicted, but most often they'll happen without reason, and be unpredictable. Don't fault yourself. Fill those times doing other things that will bring in $$, if need be, or use those times for self care and relaxation.

7. I'll suggest ignoring even steering clear of those peers who like to brag about their magnificent reputations, followers, etc....We're all equal here, just different. Those who place themselves above another in this business are often those who also like to shun, mock, and even destroy the reputations of those they perceive as inferior. Remember reputations are just how others see you, your character is who you are. Reputations in this biz are often falsely earned and thanks to review boards, easily built, manipulated, and seldom match the persons character..... seek out those with good characters. There are a few.

8. The most important rule....Never listen to all the noise. In todays online world everyone has an opinion, and something to say. Take it all with a grain of salt. Know your worth...know that you matter, and that what you offer is wanted, enough, and is for only you to decide.If you find this industry to be to difficult, if it is causing you stress please try and get out of it. Your peace of mind is most important. Some of us choose work that isn't suitable for us. There is no shame in that and there are people out there who can help you tranistion into a different line of work.

9.Lastly....enjoy and have fun....Life is short, so are lots of penises. The length of a mans penis is never a reflection of his sexual capabilities, or talents, lol.