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Lies and jealousy...

22 Dec, 2024

I'll never understand some clients. I'll never understand why some of them choose to make up lies when they want to see another escort, or when they can't or choose not to follow through with a promise they've made to me.....I find it silly and unnecessary for any client to lie me..... Some will lie about not having money to afford my services, or not having money to purchase something they've claimed they wanted to purchase from me, or lie about not being able to see me, all when I know they've booked another lady, lol..... If a client meets another lady he prefers over me, I'm happy for him, just say that and move on to her, or don't say anything and just move on. My feelings won't be hurt. I understand this business...... If a client would rather spend his money elsewhere, or on other ladies. It's your money, spend it as you choose, and how you choose to spend it is not my business. Again, there is no need to invent a story, there is no need to lie. I'm well aware that these transactional dates are never monogamous, nor permanent. They're not meant to be!!! So please act like a grown up, man up and just tell me truth, or don't tell me at all, but again.... please stop with the silly lies.... I appreciate the men who want to see me, but never think I'm naive enough to believe that I'm the only one being seen by you.....I don't own any of my clients....They should feel they have the right to see whomever they choose to see. I'll enjoy the time we share while it's shared, but when it's over, it's over..... Should the client want more of it, then book it, but please remember, there is no reason to lie to any of us about why you can't or don't want to book more time, nor should you lie to any of us in order to book a date.....Just be honest. It's not difficult! This is a business. There is no judgement. All I hope, and I'd hope any escort expects of any client, is to honor the financial commitment you've made to us, to respect our time, our boundaries, to be hygienic and to be on time.

I'll never understand some escorts.....I'll never understand why an escort becomes jealous of another escort because a client they've once dated moves on to another escort.That should be an expected part of this business. No one should think of these transactional dates as being permanent, nor as commitments beyond the payment process, or  monogamous....I'm sorry to be blunt and matter of fact, but when a married or partnered man is willing to cheat on a partner he's committed his life to, you can bet that he's not going to be exclusive to you.There should be no reason in these transactional relationships that a client feels the need to sneak around. Nor to be secretive towards us. He should never feel the need lie to any escort about who or how many he sees. And I often wonder, could it be the lies that some clients tell escorts that spur the jealousy that often arises between some of them....Regardless, it's my practice and belief, that each time any client sees me, I see that as the last time. So if he does contact me again it's a nice surprise...I never have expectations of any client as far as him needing to be my one and only. I'll treat them as best I can when they're with me, and I'll hope that whomever he chooses to see outside of our time together, does the same. No escort should feel that they have exclusive rights to any client, and if any client makes any escort believe they have exclusive rghts, then those should be guaranteed with a financial commitment, not an emotional commitment.The only promise clients should make to us is those we've agreed upon and that when they book a date they'll follow through with it, and if they can't follow through, they'll honor our cancellation requirements. For any escort to berate or to become hateful towards another escort because a client who was once good to you, has now chosen to be good to another escort, is unprofessional and immature. This is a business, these dates are transactional, each person offering them needs to understand that, and each person purchasing our time needs to remember you are purchasing time, leave your emotions out of it......These dates aren't meant to be love connections. They are a form of escapism. You are meeting with someone who you can connect and feel comfortable with for temporary moments. We share our time, we share many things, but when that time is up, the connection should end, until the next time, should the parties agree to a next time....

Lets all act respectfully, maturely, and professionally. There is no need for telling lies, nor for becoming jealous, sneaking around, nor playing games. Thanks for reading....