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I can't say this enough....

22 Dec, 2024

Before you hire an escort research them!!! Google their name, their phone number, read their ads, their website, their socials.....RESEARCH!!! Then contact them in a professional, respectable manner.

To often I'll hear of, or read a thread on a RB where a guy is complaining about a date gone bad. Gone bad because he was scammed. He chose a scammer, and not an escort with good intentons of providing good service. Scams can be anything from robbery, to threats, to deposit rip offs, etc... What is also a constant in these complaints is that the escort being spoken about, or reported, is one with no history of regular advertisements on multiple platforms, nor a personal website, fan sites, or social media presence. They typically only have one ad on one advertising platform which they repost regularly, or every now and then. That should have been a red flag for that client.....Yet instead of these guys taking responsibility for their lack of research and carelessness, they'll blame our (professional escorts) screening methods and deposit requirements. On their threads they'll comment that you (the client) should never use your real number when contacting/booking an escort, only use a text app-WRONG!! I know no pro's who'll accept bookings from those using text apps,or blocked numbers.We need to be safe, and in order to be safe we need to know who we are meeting. Having your REAL number helps us identify you. They'll say that giving an escort a deposit is "being stupid", and a big no no-WRONG!! A deposit is used to secure your desired time with us. Without a deposit we have no reason to book you because without that depoist we have no reason to believe that you are sincere in following through with the date. Any pro's I know require deposits! We see clients who refuse to give deposits as being insincere and time wasters. The facts remain, professional escorts are easily distinguished from those who intend on scamming, if a client does their research!. Pro's advertise regularly on multiple platforms, and they keep their ads updated. They have a visible web presence. Most have and maintain a personal website rife with information and proof that the escort is real, along with other fan sites such as Onlyfans, and a strong social media presence on twitter(X), instagram, bluesky, etc....If guys would stop jumping at the shiny new penny and booking them without researching them, then they'd stop being scammed so often....... But instead, they'll continue to blame our us and our screening requirements as being problematic, instead of taking responsibility for their lack of research. I will never blame clients in general when I mistakingly fall for a client who has ill intentions, the same should be expected of those review board guys who create their scammer threads to whine about screening and deposits.....The nefarious are out there, and we both have to take precautions to protect ourselves from them. We (escorts) need to protect our lives, we do that by screening you...... You need to protect your finances.....You do that by researching, by having clear communications, and by using your big head when booking an escort!!

Thanks for reading!!