When contacting a sexworker (SW), escort, or provider, please, please, please, don't be one of those guys who prattles on about how good you are in bed, or how big your dick is . Please, please, please don't contact me or any provider to tell us how young, hung and good looking your are......

Firstly, we don't care!! Secondly, and most importantly, if you ask a sw what sexual services they provide, and for how much, you are breaking the law! In Canada, a sw can sell sexual services, but it is illegal for anyone to purchase them. I know that is confusing, and ridiculous, but it is the law. Hence the reason we sell our time and hence the reason, those of us who are professional, and who hold our clients interests foremost, will NOT discuss sexual services upon booking. We discuss booking our time. Doing so, provides you impunity. So..... If you want to impress a sw, contact them as they request to be contacted, provide them the information and or deposit they require, and then book them for a multi hour date, that is what I/they, will find sexy......

We don't care what you look like, nor do we care how sexually prowess you may be. Your physical attributes, or sexual talents won't mean anything to most professional providers. What will mean something, is your hygiene, your respectfulness, treating us as business professionals, by speaking to us with articulateness and manners, by following our booking protocols, by being discreet, and showing up on time. Those things will garner you all the sexy attention you desire.

 I love my sexy time with my clients, and I adore worshipping their cocks, but I don't want to be sexually regaled before our date. Save that talk for the bedroom. Hearing from a man that speaks with intelligence, manners, and an interest in me beyond just my physicality/pictures, or sexual abilities, is always what will make me want to meet them. I now prefer to have dates that involve more than just physical intimacy. I enjoy meeting interesting men, from all cutures, backgrounds and professions. I enjoy conversing, and getting to know a person. But that is me...for others it differs...to each their own.

So to recap....when contacting a sw, use your big head, and your little head will thank you!