I wonder if the guys who need another's opinion of who they should be intimate with also ask other's about what foods to eat, what color underwear should be worn on any particular day, and other things that are, well, clearly personal, and only discernible by one person, the person seeking the intimacy! I wonder this because you see daily on review boards, men asking other men, who should be seen, who shouldn't, who's safe, etc......It used to make me laugh, cause me puzzlement, now I just feel sorry for those who have no idea of how to choose a companion for their needs.

So once again I'll list what you need to know in order to feel secure about choosing an escort who is safe to meet.....

Goggle is your friend and holds less bias than any review or recommendation board, use it to your advantage! Google Halifax escorts, or insert whatever city you're in/escorts then cross reference the links you find. Escorts who are invested in their business advertise on mulitple advertising sites.....I believe that an escort with a personal website and or a strong social media presence, will most likely be the safest bet...why? Because they are investing in their business and their reputation, and doing so means they will also want to invest in a clientele. This means they'll want to attract clients who will repeat. "Regulars" or "repeat clients" are important to all escorts who wish to remain relevant for any length of time. And in order for a client to repeat or revisit an escort, that escort needs to provide a good and safe ( safe, meaning no harm will come to the client)  service and will have something in common with that regular client. This means the escort and the client will share some compatibility and chemistry. AND this is NEVER something a review or reco can convey to you. Compatibility and or chemistry can only be experienced *personally* and only you can determine if you will have chemistry/compatibility through *personally* communicating with the escort. Another persons positive experience will never guarantee that you will have the same or even a similar experience....So in order to assure yourself you are meeting someone right for you, *YOU* need to converse with the escort. I cannot reiterate this point enough... If that escort won't talk to you, either by text, email, or over the phone, see that as a red flag, and move onto someone who will converse. Ask appropriate, non sexually explicit questions. Any professional escort will be offended if queried about specific sex acts. Speaking personally, I seek to meet men who choose me based on more than my physicality. I need metal stimulation in order to be sexually stimulated, and there are many others like myself. It's one thing to politely ask what isn't allowed, it's another to graphically list sex acts you expect to engage in. If a menu of sex acts is all you seek then look for escorts who advertise those and take your chances........It's a given that any professional, discreet escort hired will provide a clean, respectful client with service that will satisfy. And remember it is illegal to purchase sex, it is legal to buy our time.......So it's just silly to expect anyone who deems themself professional, to answer questions such as how much for a bj, or for msog, can I lick your pussy,  etc..... Be honest with yourself about the rapport you experience with the escort you contact.... and do not ignore bad rapport. DO NOT choose someone based solely on their physical traits, unless that is all you care about. And in that case, none of my advice will likely matter. Because no matter what I say, you are thinking with you little head and that is the head you'll be lead by.......and that is the head which most often leads men into problematic situations. And please know screening is common practice. Escorts who are safe to see will want to screen you ( meaning they'll ask you questions, and request proof of your identity) and each will have a different method of screening which suits their needs. Never argue this, if it makes you uncomfortable, simply move on to someone else. Screening is done foremost to assure ourselves that the clients we accept will do us no harm. We also screen  for compatibility/chemistry and other reasons. A professional escort will never abuse your information. We want it protected as much as our own privacy. After all, We want you to come back.

Professional escorts advertise on more than one platform and many tour different cities, provinces, towns, even countries. Check the escorts ads and read them!!...... We also have presence on one or more social media sites. If an escort is new and only advertising on one advertising site, and has no social media presence, see that as a red flag and move on. Most escorts today invest more time on their social media, than on any other platform. Be that onlyfans, twitter, instagram, snapchat, facebook, etc....it is there or their personal websites that will educate you the most about the escorts personalities, boundaries, likes/dislikes, attitude, requirements, etc, etc. Read all their information before you contact them. There is nothing more off putting than receiving contact from a client who asks "how much", "are you working", "how do I book", etc, etc. When all the questions asked are clearly listed on our ads, websites and other media.....

Choosing who to see initially, should be easy for you. Since it's only you who knows what you like and why you are wanting to see an escort. Determining whether or not the escort is "safe" to see also can only be determined by you, and is not a difficult task, if you use your brain & follow my tips^. Also..... How an escort expects payment won't always determine red flags.....Some safe to see escorts want giftcards, some want etransfers, some request deposits, some only accept payment in person. We all have different reasons for why we accept payment as we choose. Again, first and foremost, research the escort. If everything else looks good, there is no need to question their payment methods. Again.... Google and see how many ads the escort has, check for a personal website, & social media presence and read all of it. Then talk to the escort, either by email, text or via a phone call. Only then will you be able to know if someone is right FOR YOU. John, Bill, Tim, or Tom, etc, might have had a great time with an escort, but their time was good because of the rapport they had, because of what they payed, because of how they engaged, because of what they said, and or possibly promised.....etc, etc. Remember that. Not all of what some say about some escorts is shared honestly in reco's and reviews, nor through dm's. Not all clients are actual clients either.... Reviews and reco's can come from having an agenda attached as can personal opinions. Some clients will only promote escorts who've given them a discount, or who advertise lower rates, or who perform specific services. Some clients promote an escort they've become personally smitten with, in an attempt to gain further attention from that escort....there are many, many reasons why some escorts get rave reviews, and not always are those reasons honest or earned.

Again....Use your brain.....read, and research. If you rely on reviews, be mindful of who's writing them. Be reasonable, sensible, and honest with your expectations when choosing your escort. Explain to the escort, with polite, articulate words, what you expect, and be mindful and informed of what the escort offers and which boundaries are implemented. Then when you are sure you've made the right choice, enjoy the relaxation and shared passion your choosen escort will offer you....

But no matter how many of us explain what to do, what not to do, you'll still get RB (review board) idiots doing the exact opposite all while expecting a postive outcome.....

After writing this blog it came to my attention about an established escort, who's been verified on the local review board, and who has a professional website and who has an implemted DNR/DND (do not review/do not discuss) request. Who was being discussed on the local review board. The guys were questioning her legitmacy???? The stupidity, and lack of respect shown to her in that thread is just sad....and once again is representative to why I despise review boards. Even with clear instructions of how, what ,when, where of how to connect with escorts, even with all we advertise, even with clear do's and don'ts posted on our sites, you get review board idiots who ignore all of it and post, and ask whatever they choose. The boards have given these empty headed, brainless idiots and their like, a forum to post on to exploit and abuse whomever they choose. I call them idiots because that's how they look and sound, as this lady spoken of has offered all those wanting to see her, all the necessary material for them to be assured she is professional/verified/real and safe to see!! Yet they still question her safety and legitimacy, and even with her DNR/DND in place they also ignore that and open a thread asking about her. (the thread has since been removed, thankfully)